night-blooming jasmine
sitting in a water glass
still blooms when it’s night
night-blooming jasmine
sitting in a water glass
still blooms when it’s night
woman at bus stop
san franciscan valentine
a total stranger
the first
morning we awoke together broke
fast on the first day of the first
month we talked of dreams and
planned our next re-
union. talking to the thai
order taker i heard vocalized in the re-
peated numbers a credit
to your kindness. registered. we
ate and watched stupid teevee,
wondering what resonates
enough to laugh. these
days repeated their thrust, pre-
dicting a sweet opening.
I took smarty Marty’s Metaskills quiz today. I love how balanced it came out!
Throughout 2013, I’ve been spending a lot more time both in New York and in San Francisco, for personal and professional reasons. I’m a native New Yorker, born in Riverdale and raised in the burbs, and still consider NY “The City.” And even though I’ve regularly frequented SF over the past 10 years, averaging 3–5 extended trips per year, this year I’ve spent months at a time here, working as I am now from a friend’s desk with a view of the intersection of Haight & Laguna.
Proximity is one key to relationship development (among many others, like doing great work, being kind, networking, and having a little luck), and my increased time in SF has happily resulted in building business here (yay travel write-offs!). The more people I meet, the more fodder I have for developing a hypothesis about the vastly different cultures of both places.
At the root of this hypothesis is the influence that the physical & natural environment has on its culture:
New York has miles of concrete and verticality, and is vast in size, which informs a directness and solidity of communication; maybe its history or tradition influences this, too. It has volume, noise, individuals feel competitive even for sidewalk space, and there are extremes of weather.
San Francisco has little bedrock and crazy hills, and its 7x7 mile environment is ultraconcentrated with immense variety; things are subject to shift around every corner, and at any moment. There is an almost cosmic openness and tolerance for individuality and range of expression. Conversely, or for balance, there’s less of a variation in climate.
Having written this, I feel like I’m just beginning to learn a new language, or two.
I like iOS7. I’m inspired by its Powers of Ten-like zooming, and there are neat little things packed in — like the Clock showing the accurate time even without launching the app. I love the single-Note sound alert, and the charging chime. The shake of entering in an incorrect passcode was integrated from the desktop, and the fade in & out of viewing the lock screen nicely mirrors the smoothness of launching into or zooming out of an app. Nice work, guys. While it does have a few clunky considerations in just a few places, over the course of one afternoon it has managed to make every other interface I interface with feel outdated.
So here’s what’s next to reconsider (a wish list):
Arguably, cameras still have the same form factor, so Camera can stay; Mail is still a nice attempt at taking over the USPS and has happily lost its Windows-like clouds.
But there’s still work to do. Want to collaborate with me on them?
I see a parallel between Thanaa and Woodstock’s language.
My good friend Steven has many families. There’s his family from Jiggs Tavern. Jiggs is a bar in Baltimore that’s been in Steven’s nuclear family for a few generations. When his Dad passed away a few years ago, Steven left Providence to move back home to manage the place. He’s supported a few families simultaneously, in making this sacrifice.
He knew he would eventually move back to Providence. I’d see him on his occasional visits. But I always wanted to see Jiggs myself. I was always curious about the stories of his patrons, people he served and refused to serve, wanting to stitch together the environment hinted at by images on Facebook.
So a few Sundays ago, I surprised him by showing up, unannounced, to the going away party he threw for himself. There was no better time, and no more remaining time, to satisfy my curiosity. I booked a flight only a few hours before it left. I had one carry-on bag with a toothbrush, socks, and underwear.
I witnessed an amazing community that truly loves Steven. I felt the love in the room — it wasn’t just the stiff drinks making me wear love goggles. Love truly knows no location, shape, size, color, race, gender, class, religion. The community of Jiggs is Steven’s family.
in this day and age
feels like i’m breathing liquid
sunlight between us
The vocal styling of John Flansburgh on the original (She Was A) Hotel Detective sounds like the same caterwaul from Billy Corgan.